I met the coolest guy today he is great he has a little body surf shop his bookkeeping was a MESS but I cleaned it up really fast.

The guy is really cute and just huggable. His whole family is cool they are, him his wife and 2 kids plus a really neat dog.

They are moving from Hawaii and are all tan and in shape.

Right away I felt like a part of the family it was so neat.

The guys partner was not as nice as the original guy but we will see. He seemed a little snobby but still friendly.

I swear Hope all men are scum show me one that isn’t and I will show you a million that say they aren’t as well.  He was being very nice to me making me promise after promise I went out to dinner with him a couple times I was of course still doing his books, and of course I was somewhat flirting with him which was very unprofessional of me.  Because I was insecure and thought that that is what all men need and expect.

It all turned out bad when I went on a business trip with him and he started to drink.  I of course thinking it was very unprofessional to get wasted on a business trip stayed sober. But he wanted more he talked about us being together and how much money he was going to make and how much he liked me and wanted to be with me.

It was all a mistake then he started calling me all the time drunk and wanting me to come over to his house. Well excuse me but that is not wanted or permitted. I was being nice and I am sure this is wrong but I thought he was going to help me support you. I thought he was going to help with a job not for me to fulfill his HUGE EGO and to be arm candy.

This was unwanted and un called for.  He helped me cry through thoughts of your father through nights and days of pain but not because he wanted my best interest at heart no because he wanted what all men every want and what most get.  I can not believe I was so stupid to think an actual guy wanted me for ME not for me being a girl.  At the moment I HATE all men. I hope you never learn what I have learned I hope you never see what men are really like. At times I hope you are just a lesbian. Life would be much easier believe me.

But not this one, even my co-worker said that these people were nuts. Take “Crazy Dr”. This guy would call me all the time and ramble on about things I had no idea about. I was not at his desk and had not memorized every vender. He wanted his wife to do some of the bookkeeping and she had no desire to do I, so would slough it off on me. I didn’t mind (hey extra work!), but then if he asked her a question she would blame me and then not tell me what she had said. I felt like a marriage counselor with them both and all 3 of us were not going to win.  My co-worker dropped them as clients and so did I.  It just wasn’t worth the hassle.

This man, lets call him “divorce man aka A/C King” is a bit odd. He appears to be very religious and a little dorky and has great manners.

I had lunch with him today to talk about his business and it was nice that he so wonderfully treated me like a lady.

People often open up to me and he talked about getting divorced the whole time.  I did not tell him the issues or problems that I am having with your father. Maybe I will though; maybe it would be nice to get a man’s opinion on all of this.

He talked about his business and how he built it. How his ex-partner was trying to screw him over and how he had been very disappointed in all that was happening in his life.  He complemented me, but not in a sleazy way (which to say sad but true I am very used to) he talked about how I could improve his business and that together we could make great things happen.

17 Rules of Dating

1. Date those with your same standards

2. No necking or Petting

3. No French Kissing

4. Date in Groups

5. Do Not Park

6. No Back Rubs

7. No lying down on top or beside each other

8. Attend wholesome activities

9. No immodest dress

10. Never enter a home alone together

11. Never enter a bedroom together

12. Choose friends carefully

13. No missionary work one on one

14 No late hours

15. Be responsible for your own actions

16. Discuss dating rules with partners

17. You are not the exception to these rules

What I thought both odd and good about these rules was that they were printed out on a little laminated business card.  You could carry it with you and refer back to it if you forgot the rules.   I thought it odd that they wrote them out.  Wouldn’t you tell your children this to there face? Does a card make it more real or more the truth? Some of them I thought funny and others I thought “wow – if I had only listened to these when I was younger”, even at this point in my life I most likely would not have been with so many people.  I wonder at what age they hand out these little cards and explain them to the kids. Do the kids know about sex or do they just prevent it by giving them these cards? I think a better way would be to explain to your kid about sex about how it feels and about how our natural urges are sometimes not so smart. But this is also why I am not a polygamist.  I cleaned there closets (they wear odd under garments) and the woman kept wanting me to throw things away they had such a small amount of stuff for all there kids I felt really guilty for throwing anything away.  6 girls and 1 boy and they want me to get rid of something. Everything was a hand me down, and everything was very old.  The house was too small for such a large family and the parents had no privacy. But I did my job and wished them well.  The last thing the woman wanted me to do was assign her children chores. With ALL of those kids none of them helped around the house.  Hope, YOU help around the house and you are only a baby.  I think a teen and pre- teen should know how to clean up their own room.  I thought about all the  dating rules and all the mess; they can not simply have chores.  I made a chore chart sat them all down and explained how important it was for them to all have chores I am not sure if they get it but I hoped so for the mom’s sake.

He had a million little notes all over the room and wrote so small I could not read anything.  He was very smart and his whole family was very inviting.

He has a secret that he keeps locked away from his daughter that I personally think is mean but he states for her own good.

His daughter is VERY bright and as far as I can tell very balanced.  They make too much of her being slow on some subjects and fast on others and are always trying to diagnose her instead of just looking to see that maybe she is a normal girl.

It’s funny I meet these parents and they tell me how there kids are and it all sounds like normal kid stuff to me.  Children are supposed to have short attention spans they are supposed to be loud and not listen to you they are supposed to not want to do homework. It’s all part of being a child.

Sometimes I think people are too quick to give  kids drugs instead of just realizing that they are growing and maturing and going to act out.  They are not little adults they are kids. Anyway these people are neat and interesting and although a little demanding seem very nice.

She is a very …. Robust woman with a heart of gold who always tries to fill her life up with too many things to do. I call her the horse lady because she owns a wonderful ranch full of horses and although I was around horses for a very short time in Holland I really have not been around them all that much.They are big and beautiful and powerful animals all with there own personality and opinions.  The “Horse lady” loves to hunt and jump and run these horses and all have a special job and requirement for her.  She also has a small staff and it is neat to see the hustle and bustle of the farm work. Horses take a lot of time and care and although I have not ventured asking her to ride one one day I am sure she will throw me on the back of a horse smack it’s ass and send me off riding. It is really neat to meet so many different types of people in my job and to see how everyone lives the same but different. It is neat to see all the different personalities with the same fears and worry’s that the next person has.  I have a feeling that this woman will be a great joy in my life and I will learn a lot from her, and hopefully I will help her in being more organized and bring less stress to her life.

Jupiter Montessori School

She told me about a Montessori school and I am going to do some research on it to see what it is all about.  The way she described it, it sounds just like something I would want you to be in.

Her house was beautiful and it sounded like she has a great relationship with her husband and kids. She was very into the school and her family.  It is amazing how much you can learn from people and how much they really open up when you smile and let them talk.