I met the coolest guy today he is great he has a little body surf shop his bookkeeping was a MESS but I cleaned it up really fast.

The guy is really cute and just huggable. His whole family is cool they are, him his wife and 2 kids plus a really neat dog.

They are moving from Hawaii and are all tan and in shape.

Right away I felt like a part of the family it was so neat.

The guys partner was not as nice as the original guy but we will see. He seemed a little snobby but still friendly.

I swear Hope all men are scum show me one that isn’t and I will show you a million that say they aren’t as well.  He was being very nice to me making me promise after promise I went out to dinner with him a couple times I was of course still doing his books, and of course I was somewhat flirting with him which was very unprofessional of me.  Because I was insecure and thought that that is what all men need and expect.

It all turned out bad when I went on a business trip with him and he started to drink.  I of course thinking it was very unprofessional to get wasted on a business trip stayed sober. But he wanted more he talked about us being together and how much money he was going to make and how much he liked me and wanted to be with me.

It was all a mistake then he started calling me all the time drunk and wanting me to come over to his house. Well excuse me but that is not wanted or permitted. I was being nice and I am sure this is wrong but I thought he was going to help me support you. I thought he was going to help with a job not for me to fulfill his HUGE EGO and to be arm candy.

This was unwanted and un called for.  He helped me cry through thoughts of your father through nights and days of pain but not because he wanted my best interest at heart no because he wanted what all men every want and what most get.  I can not believe I was so stupid to think an actual guy wanted me for ME not for me being a girl.  At the moment I HATE all men. I hope you never learn what I have learned I hope you never see what men are really like. At times I hope you are just a lesbian. Life would be much easier believe me.

This man, lets call him “divorce man aka A/C King” is a bit odd. He appears to be very religious and a little dorky and has great manners.

I had lunch with him today to talk about his business and it was nice that he so wonderfully treated me like a lady.

People often open up to me and he talked about getting divorced the whole time.  I did not tell him the issues or problems that I am having with your father. Maybe I will though; maybe it would be nice to get a man’s opinion on all of this.

He talked about his business and how he built it. How his ex-partner was trying to screw him over and how he had been very disappointed in all that was happening in his life.  He complemented me, but not in a sleazy way (which to say sad but true I am very used to) he talked about how I could improve his business and that together we could make great things happen.

It is a couple and the woman is a little scatter brained she has three boys and her house is a wreck. I am going to try to sell her my organizational skills as well but I doubt she will take them. We talked a lot about how to get her husbands books in order and how to establish good habits for him.

He is stuck in a lot of bad habits that really need to be broken. I see this all the time with people they keep doing something that does not work for them and causes them grief instead of thinking of something else that might be easier.

I hope that they listen to my advise and learn from what I have learned. I am sure just like little kids they won’t HA.

Although I was a little upset at this I understood I was not really doing anything he could not do himself if he just took the time it was good while it lasted and I really did learn a lot from him. In his many rants regarding religion and how to make money and his meeting with his get rich quick guys I watched a DVD by Wayne Dyer called “The Power of Intention“ it is an amazing way to teach you about god.

When you get older I am going to have you watch it because it really opened my eyes to a new way to view god. A way that even half way atheists like myself can grasp. The way he said it and explained it, it really clicked with me.

Unlike that stupid “Secret” thing this guy really broke it down so it did not sound do car salesman like.

I called Chee Chee and told her all about it that I finally got it that I understand what she was trying to teach me. I am grateful that I met this client and that he gave this to me so that I have something to instill in you that is no against what I believe in and not so cult like.

You will learn little one that many things in our society are cult like sometimes this is good but always be aware of them.

Uppity Stuck-Up Insane Painter

The people were very stuck up and uppity the owner is a painter so we will call him “insane painter”. He is a very good painter is art is amazing but he is so stuck on himself that it really takes away from the art.

He wants everything PERFECT, which I understand, but to a point.

I will be doing his bookkeeping and his assistant is a little ass kisser who is up his the whole time. She reminds me of a little scared mouse that he as the leopard is batting her back and forth. Let NO ONE EVER treat you like that Hope. EVER. I very much treat people the way I want to be treat and NO ONE is better then me or worse then me in my eyes.

I am not sure how long this job will last but all I can do is do my best and see what unfolds.

Good Planning on My Part

He had forgotten that I made sure to write my check out for advance payment.

He wanted me to do all this work for him and I did it. Then, he said he did not like the work and was not going to pay me. Even though the work was the same as the work he just raved about the week before. I did work from home a lot for him and organized a lot of his paperwork. I made the office run must smoother and cleaned up his Quickbooks files. He still was not happy. Well, I guess you can not please everyone.

Crazy People Stay Crazy

There are some crazy people in the world out there. If they seem crazy from the start don’t think they will get any better no matter what you do for them.

The Secret – Required Watching

He wanted me to do his bookkeeping for him and the first thing he wanted me to do was sit down and watch “The Secret”.

I have never seen this before and very much thought of it as a cult thing. I did not like the way it was presented but thought I might as well enjoy this guy is paying me by the hour. He is a chubby man with an annoying dog and a way to cluttered house.

Make a Million Dollars Without Actually Working

He is trying to find a quick way to make a million dollars with out actually working for it and he THINKS that this “Secret” will work. I simply think that he should get a job. But you never know this might actually work. He’s disorganized and all over the place and keeps watching these movies over and over again and writing himself million dollar checks that he can not cash.

I’m Still Uncertain About God

He talks to me about other projects that he might have for me and talks to me a lot about god. I am nervous and a little skittish when it comes to god talk. I don’t know which way to turn with that. I know that I need to wrap my head around a religion especially when you start asking me about god and church and all the other things that I know you are going to ask me about. I never really thought about it much until I had you and then all of a sudden it was pushed forward in my mind like a puzzle that all of a sudden must be solved.

I know I do not like organized religion I do not like the “you are a sinner and will go to hell” part I do not like the “if you don’t act this way god will not love you if you don’t give me money god will not love you” I do not like the cult type of religion. I have read a couple spiritual books and they all have the same message. Something I think that I can teach you by example instead of shoving it down your thought every Sunday. I will keep an open mind to what this guy is saying if only to appease him.

On My First Day, He Wanted Me To Fire Someone

“Wacko Dentist” was insane and drove me crazy. I quite my last job to work for him and on my first day on the job he wanted me to fire someone. I have never fired anyone. This guy was very very very mean and rude and at one point I thought was going to hit me. I was terrified but tried very hard to act professional. “Wacko Dentist” acted like it was all my fault and wanted to blame me for everything.

Not Only a Bastard, He Failed to Pay Me

I stayed at the job for a couple weeks but after him berating me and calling me names and then not paying me properly, it was just enough for me to handle. That is really what motivated me to look for another career and decide on my business. This crazy man who almost made me have a heart attack each day.

Yet, He Wanted Me Back

So anyway this man actually called me and wanted me to work for him. Trying to be a smart business woman I told him he would have to pay in at least one week in advance and that I would work MY schedule and if I work from home he is paying for that in advance as well.

We will see how it goes.